"we would trade the best day we've had without kids for your worst day with them."
Ya know what, we wouldn't. I 'm not judging this girl or think less of her. I cannot begin to fathom the level of their difficulties as a couple. I'm just saying, for us, we have a pretty nice life.
I wouldn't trade our most difficult and sad day for any other families' most spectacular. That's because we know we are where we are and who we are because of those days.
As a 3.5/5 star movie once said "How could [we] be angry when this is clearly as God intended it to be for [us]?"
We still ache for our children, quite often recently, but "when upon life's billows you are tempest tossed...count your many blessings see what God hath done."
1. We have a rock solid marriage. Seriously, it's everything I ever wanted.
3. We have an education that is unmatched by most of the rest of the world.
4. We have a family, both in our home and extended, that love, support, and strengthen us everyday and will be wonderful for any child to come into. I don't mean to brag, but our family ROCKS!
Why would we ever trade our life without our children for someone's life with their children? I've said it once and I'll say it a billion more times, we don't want any children, we want our children, and we'll wait and search forever for them.
We have a pretty great life, and we are excited to bring children into our life when it is time for them to be here with us. We pray daily to be strengthened until that day comes.